心情不好的時候，他的笑臉讓我忍不住也跟著笑。當我跟他抱怨我人生有多困難的時候，他給我不一樣的思考，把我帶到光明面。當我對人生感到困惑迷惘的時候，他帶我找出生命的意義。第一次知道有人可以活得如此積極樂觀！每一次談話，都為我注入滿滿的活力與信心，讓我有一種人生還是值得期待的感覺。
如果要用一種東西來譬喻他，太陽肯定是最適合的。他能照亮我內心陰暗的小角落，把我的負面思考通通刪除。我總是不斷地對他提出質疑，不停地拿我的悲觀挑戰他的樂觀，他總是帶著微笑耐心地聽我把話說完，然後他像夜市裡玩射氣球遊戲的小男孩，拿起他的BB槍，一一把我那些悲觀的負面思考氣球打爆。
英語不是我的母語，所以有時把自己的想法表達地七零八落，但他總是知道我說什麼。他不停地鼓舞著我，把他身上正向的力量傳遞給我。在他身上我學到好多好多東西，好希望這樣的人可以一直在我身邊。他那天問我「什麼時候走？」我說「九月九號的飛機。」他點了點頭，我難過得想哭，但他依舊對我笑了笑，以一種極其陽光的方式。他叫Mike，讓總是灰濛濛的蘇格蘭和我的人生明亮了起來。
他說:
「I agree that life is not easy, but why want an easy life? It is in our struggles and challenges that we grow and, in nature, if something is not growing, it is dying.
It is the act of pursuing our goals that makes us feel good, not the goal itself. It doesn't matter if you fail. It is about the journey, not the destination.
So, yeah, you could choose to be content, to stand on the sidelines in fear of failure. Or, you could take a risk and just maybe do something incredible...
It takes some thought to know what you want. I'm still trying to figure some stuff out myself! It's easy to fall into the trap of pursuing goals we think are our own but really they are our parent's or society's wants for us. So many of us do things, not because we want to, but to please others or because it is the accepted thing to do.」
如果要用一種東西來譬喻他，太陽肯定是最適合的。他能照亮我內心陰暗的小角落，把我的負面思考通通刪除。我總是不斷地對他提出質疑，不停地拿我的悲觀挑戰他的樂觀，他總是帶著微笑耐心地聽我把話說完，然後他像夜市裡玩射氣球遊戲的小男孩，拿起他的BB槍，一一把我那些悲觀的負面思考氣球打爆。
英語不是我的母語，所以有時把自己的想法表達地七零八落，但他總是知道我說什麼。他不停地鼓舞著我，把他身上正向的力量傳遞給我。在他身上我學到好多好多東西，好希望這樣的人可以一直在我身邊。他那天問我「什麼時候走？」我說「九月九號的飛機。」他點了點頭，我難過得想哭，但他依舊對我笑了笑，以一種極其陽光的方式。他叫Mike，讓總是灰濛濛的蘇格蘭和我的人生明亮了起來。
他說:
「I agree that life is not easy, but why want an easy life? It is in our struggles and challenges that we grow and, in nature, if something is not growing, it is dying.
It is the act of pursuing our goals that makes us feel good, not the goal itself. It doesn't matter if you fail. It is about the journey, not the destination.
So, yeah, you could choose to be content, to stand on the sidelines in fear of failure. Or, you could take a risk and just maybe do something incredible...
It takes some thought to know what you want. I'm still trying to figure some stuff out myself! It's easy to fall into the trap of pursuing goals we think are our own but really they are our parent's or society's wants for us. So many of us do things, not because we want to, but to please others or because it is the accepted thing to do.」
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